I’ve been considering it for a while. She was my neighbor, long-time good friend, and I’ve been into her for a while. We started going on dates and becoming official not too long ago, and I was thinking of moving in with her.
All our families completely support the idea and so does my GF.
Dan Savage, the romantic advice columnist, says you should not move in together until you have been farting in front of each other for six months.
Without stopping? That’s going to chafe.
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Sound guide. I’ll see myself out.
Damn, I had forgotten about Dan, but his advice is generally solid, so… Fart yourself into a domestic partnership!
Think, talk, repeat until you reach a conclusion.
Take a multi-day trip beforehand. You should at least experience an abbreviated version of living together before you actually do.
Get a new place together, or have her move in with you. Don’t move into her place.
Thank you!! Why not move into her place, may I ask??
Sounds like the right time.
Normally, being official a short time would not be a good time, but it sounds like you’ve already spent your whole life knowing this person, so I don’t see much of a reason why you should have to wait.
Moved in with my wife fairly shortly after we started dating. I’d say within 3-4 months. It just felt right to both of us. Married 20 years now.
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