• Manmoth@lemmy.ml
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    23 days ago

    If someone supports gay marriage they have no basis for opposing polygamist or incestuous marriages outside of how it subjectively makes them feel. Marriage is historically a religio-cultural institution. Without that context there can be no restrictions that don’t also violate foundational secular values such as personal freedom. Secularity and modernism gatekeeping marriage is a hilarious mental gymnastics routine. These days marriage is just something to keep lawyers in business anyway. The government should just get out of the marriage business entirely at this point.

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      22 days ago

      You can oppose both polygamist or incestuous marriage if it’s in a context of religious and sexist oppression, which tend to be the case in most instances of those two types of marriages.

      I wouldn’t have complains about polyamory incestuous marriage of free people. But sadly most of practical cases are not like that.

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        22 days ago

        Your view is an intellectually honest one from a modernist perspective. I would go further though and say that marriage should have no secular existence at all.